I don’t need to tell you how you are feeling because you know exactly what that is. It is a pain that just won’t go away. You love them and you want to be with them. Your friends and family who love you and want what’s best for you are telling you to stop all contact with them and move on with your life. They all mean well but is that the answer to everyone’s relationship problems? Is it the answer to yours?

Well let’s look into this a little more and see if there are reasons why you should not be with this person. Is your spouse or loved one someone who is abusive mentally or physically? Are they addicted to some form of substance abuse? Is the reason you are wanting them back a matter of the ego or a matter of your heart?

First you decide and if this person you are wanting to get back in your life is not an abusive person to themselves or anyone else then chances are good that you can reverse the break up. But it is a process somewhat like the advice you have heard from others about “no contact” and “moving on” only you are not doing it to rid your life of them or the feelings you have for them and moving on. You are going to be doing it to create a better life for yourself and retrieving your loved one.

Why do people tell you to forget about the person you love so much? Move on? Stop being stupid and get a life? Why do they try to drown your desire of being back with the one you love? Why do they give you the same advice over and over again in every situation? Because it is all that they know. Peoples opinions and advice come from what they have known and experienced in their own relationships and because that is what they have decided to do when a relationship for them had ended.

A lot of it comes from bitterness and you can easily tell by the tone of their voices or from the advice they give.

They didn’t have someone to talk to about a different way, or if they did they didn’t listen and follow through. They didn’t have the guidance. They didn’t have the information that you can have to save your relationship and bring back the one you love, so they just gave up and went with the advice and tried to move on. But do you really ever move on?

Think about how bitter these people are even years after the initial event of losing their loved one. How their experience in that relationship went sour and pretty much has given them a grim outlook on relationships and people of the opposite sex. It is sad, and these very same people are telling you that you need to do the same? If that is not where your heart is then don’t listen to that advice. Not only that but they may try to convince you that by pushing your pain deeper inside yourself you will be able to forget that person. So untrue. You never forget the ones you love and pushing the pain deeper inside yourself is not only harmful but even worse deadly in more ways then one.

This is your life and you need to design it to fit you and your desires and it should never be because someone else thought you should live your life in a certain way. To appeal to them and their judgments of what is right or wrong. Remembering that people judge through their own versions of what is right or wrong for themselves.

For example lets say that “Joe” likes to drink his beer after work and relax before going to bed. This is what Joe does and he is happy with that. Joes brother Mike thinks that drinking beer is a “bad” thing for whatever reason and judges Joe for it and tells him he is doing wrong and should not drink beer at all, give it up and drink something non alcoholic. Joe is happy just the way he is and what he believes is right for himself and thinks his brother Mike should just allow him to be as he is.

How does that make you feel? Do you think Mike should mind his own business and let Joe do what makes him happy? Your judgments and opinions should be yours and yours alone. That doesn’t mean not to take anyone’s opinions into consideration, but be aware of where they are coming from, why they give you that advice, and look into all options before you make the most important decisions of your life. You will be the one living with or without your loved one, not them.

But remember that people will try to mold you into a version of themselves. They couldn’t win back the hearts of the ones they loved so they have no other advice to give but to say you are a fool to believe your relationship could be saved or retrieved and that only by chance and good luck that it could possibly happen. So untrue. They just didn’t know how to do that for themselves and it causes them sadness, jealousy and hatred toward someone who actually goes against their advice and is happily living their life with the one they had lost.

If you believe in your heart that this person is the one for you and you are wondering why they left you, why the relationship is heading for a break up, then you need to get the information that truly answers those questions you are asking yourself right now and reverse it. Seek and you shall find.

It doesn’t have to be hard getting your love back, the door is open to your happiness, it is up to you to walk inside. If having your love back is worth it to you then don’t hold yourself back any longer. Go here and get started.
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Truly speaking, if “having sex” with him with no strings attached is what you desire as well then it should work out fine for both of you. But if you are a women who wants to be in a committed relationship with a man then “having sex” to soon will not cause him to love you, cherish you or even commit to you.

This is one of the biggest mistakes women make when meeting a man who they think is incredible and want to keep him forever in a loving and committed relationship. They are afraid if they don’t give him what he ultimately wants and if they hold out for what they truly want then he will leave and find someone else to have sex with. I am sorry but if that is the type of man you are dating then by all means let him go because the end result will not be what you really want for yourself.

If he whines and complains about it and says to you, “but if you love me you will have sex with me,” what he really is trying to do is play on your giving nature and making you believe that you have to prove your love by giving into him. If he loves you he will wait for you and that is the type of man who will build a long term relationship with you. That is the man you can trust and count on for the long haul and the man who puts your feelings before his own needs.

Every guy I don’t care who it is, even the long time players deep down inside want a commited relationship with the one woman who is different from all the others he has played with. The woman who can win his heart. When he finds that woman he will settle down with her.

Have you ever dated a guy for awhile, possibly even years that can never seem to commit to you? Your relationship never goes beyond the casual dating and sex? You wait and try your best to get him to move the relationship along but he never does? Then he either breaks up with you or you break it off with him out of sheer frustration only to find out later that he found someone else and is completely committed to her the way you wanted him to be to you? The reason is because he didn’t find that special, authentic, person in you that separated you from all the other women he has had in his life. Possibly you were too accommodating, perhaps you gave him what he wanted too soon and too easily. Something he could always get from any other women he dated.

But that one woman came along and made herself different, she didn’t give into him, she waited for his commitment to her before she had sex with him. She separated herself from any other woman he had ever known. Smart women will not give into a man if she is not playing his game. She knows what she wants for her future and she will not settle for any lesser of a man. She has this air of confidence about her that attracts even the commitment phoebe who in turns wins his heart.

So how do you become this smart woman who can win the heart of the man she wants a future with? One way is to stay true to yourself and settle for nothing less then what your heart desire’s. Put your heart first before anything else, especially him. Be hot, sexy and flirty with a lot class, have confidence in yourself and don’t give into him. Keep him wanting more of you by being mysterious. Never expose your past relationships or complaints about your life to him, even if he asks. Stay focused on your goals and live your life for you and no one else.

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If you are experiencing happy, joyful and wonderful circumstances and situations or surrounded in life by happy go lucky people, why do you think that is so? Did this all come about by fate? Chance? Or perhaps good luck?

Or if you find yourself in a bad situation or circumstances that cause you to be unhappy, challenged and surrounded by negative and difficult people, did it all come about by chance? Fate? Or bad luck?

What do you think caused of the conditions you are experiencing in your life right now? Most people might say that all the good things in life come about by luck and all the bad things are caused by other people and complain about being the victim under control by the environment and circumstances and even perhaps feel they have no control over it. Especially when it comes to breaking up with someone you love dearly or they have broken up with you and you feel terrible about it.

You really want to reconcile and save your relationship but have no clue where to begin or how to get them back. Maybe you have tried just about everything you know and it just made things worse. You feel you may have blown all your chances. Even if you are the one who made the mess of your relationship you can still bring them back to you and I will show you where to start.

First of all you have to stop blaming them, blaming yourself and playing the victim. You need to start feeling the power of who you are. When you stop blaming yourself, them or other people you give back to yourself the power of control in your own life and relationship. You are not just some small creature in a great big universe. You are the one in control of all your experiences and realities be they good or bad.

There are basically two things you can do right now if you are facing a break up, a separation and even a divorce. You can except the fact that it is hopeless and there is no way to “fix” it, or you can take responsibility for yourself and your part in the result of what is happening and make a complete turn around and bring them back to you as a more loving, caring and more “into” you then either of you have ever experienced before. I have the right blue print for you, I have the secrets and the step by step plan of action to get them back and the sooner you start, the sooner they will be back in your arms again. Your whole life will change and you will feel more complete, more confident and more in control then you have ever been before in your entire life. I am not kidding about this. This method has worked for millions of men and women in turning around an otherwise bad situation into something more then they could have ever imagined without this information.

Simple concepts, simple idea’s and a major impact on your relationship and your entire life. It’s more then just healing, accepting and moving on. It’s not the advice you have been given before by friends, parents and relatives. When you are ready to put some sound principles and steps to work for you then go to this page that I am going to provide for you. Get your free information, mp3’s and videos that is going to change the circumstances you are facing right now by clicking over the bottom paragraphs.

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But by doing this we unknowingly are building resentment deep within us. Resentment occurs when a person gives more then they recieve over a period of time. It becomes overwhelming. Don’t get me wrong, giving is a beautiful thing but to much of a good thing causes one to be taken for granted. Because as the days and weeks go by and you continually give, give and give without rarely getting the same in return it will eventually result in a huge knock down drag out fight because you are so overwhelmed and this leaves you and the one you love hurt and confused.

So by trying really hard not to be labeled as a nag or witch the problems only get worse. It is perfectly okay to tell your man how you feel in the moment you feel overwhelmed. You can set limmits without becoming a witch. You may be wondering what do you do when you need to address something to your man. Basically it is the simple act of talking but in a way that he will listen. Talking is easy and we all love to talk but when it comes to talking about problems in the relationship skill that all women can learn that will cause your man to listen and open up and share his feelings with you.

If a women just talks and talks and talks, he may listen at first but then he becomes overwhelmed and he tunes you out. To many words are overwhelming to a man when forced to listen for a long period of time. It is just how it is. Words alone won’t get your point across and the problem never gets solved. What you need is a more powerful way that cuts deep into a mans heart. I am not talking about threatening him or making ultimatums. I am suggesting that you use the very gift that you already have within you and that is your feelings and femininity.

When you speak with words that come from your heart and sprinkled with your feelings it will touch deep inside your mans heart. Genuinely express your feelings. Putting your feelings first above your fear of his disapproval. Don’t withhold your feelings because you are afraid of being a nag. It is the way that you talk to your man about how something makes you feel that makes all the difference in the world. You can be elegant and classy about it and render him powerless to resist you.

Show yourself some compassion. There will be times when you must put someone elses needs above your own, but if you do this over a long period of time there will be nothing left over to give yourself what you need. This is not being selfish. A lot of women treat others better then they treat themselves and though you may have been cultured that this is a virtue it will eventually leave you empty with nothing left to offer.

I have seen many women who just look drained. I am sure you have too. They literally shut down and become depressed. But being a woman who is heart centered you will actually have more to offer others. So if you are having problems in your relationship and you feel overwhelmed and taken for granted it is probably because you are giving to much to others what you yourself are needing.

If you learn to trust your heart you will never go wrong.

No women wants to come across as being a “nag” or a “bitch.” I don’t know about you but I hear men talking about thier wives, girlfriends and ex’s this way. We don’t want to be talked about this way by our own men now do we? So we often times don’t say anything to a boyfriend or husband when something is bothering us in an effort to be kind.

But by doing this we unknowingly are building resentment deep within us. Resentment occurs when a person gives more then they recieve over a period of time. It becomes overwhelming. Don’t get me wrong, giving is a beautiful thing but to much of a good thing causes one to be taken for granted. Because as the days and weeks go by and you continually give, give and give without rarely getting the same in return it will eventually result in a huge knock down drag out fight because you are so overwhelmed and this leaves you and the one you love hurt and confused.

So by trying really hard not to be labeled as a nag or witch the problems only get worse. It is perfectly okay to tell your man how you feel in the moment you feel overwhelmed. You can set limmits without becoming a witch. You may be wondering what do you do when you need to address something to your man. Basically it is the simple act of talking but in a way that he will listen. Talking is easy and we all love to talk but when it comes to talking about problems in the relationship skill that all women can learn that will cause your man to listen and open up and share his feelings with you.

If a women just talks and talks and talks, he may listen at first but then he becomes overwhelmed and he tunes you out. To many words are overwhelming to a man when forced to listen for a long period of time. It is just how it is. Words alone won’t get your point across and the problem never gets solved. What you need is a more powerful way that cuts deep into a mans heart. I am not talking about threatening him or making ultimatums. I am suggesting that you use the very gift that you already have within you and that is your feelings and femininity.

When you speak with words that come from your heart and sprinkled with your feelings it will touch deep inside your mans heart. Genuinely express your feelings. Putting your feelings first above your fear of his disapproval. Don’t withhold your feelings because you are afraid of being a nag. It is the way that you talk to your man about how something makes you feel that makes all the difference in the world. You can be elegant and classy about it and render him powerless to resist you.

Show yourself some compassion. There will be times when you must put someone elses needs above your own, but if you do this over a long period of time there will be nothing left over to give yourself what you need. This is not being selfish. A lot of women treat others better then they treat themselves and though you may have been cultured that this is a virtue it will eventually leave you empty with nothing left to offer.

I have seen many women who just look drained. I am sure you have too. They literally shut down and become depressed. But being a woman who is heart centered you will actually have more to offer others. So if you are having problems in your relationship and you feel overwhelmed and taken for granted it is probably because you are giving to much to others what you yourself are needing.

If you learn to trust your heart you will never go wrong.

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Most of the time we don’t say that it bothers us, we hold it in until out of the blue, an arguement or a disagreement erupts and all that pent up resentment just comes pouring out leaving the other person completely wondering WTF?

Has this ever happened to you? It is not that your giving nature is a bad thing infact it is a very special part of you but if you are giving to much and not getting anything in return from your spouse or lover then resentmant builds quite rapidly. However, the resentmant and the blow ups can be avoided. You love the people that you are so giving to and it pleases you when you give to others and that is a very special part that makes you unique. But you being taken for granted is not how you expect to be treated by the ones you love.

So how much should you give? You might ask. You should only give as much as they are giving you and at any time you feel you are not being appriciated, don’t let the resentment build up inside you, speak from your heart and let them know how this is making you feel.

A man is powerless when a women puts her heart first. There is so much about femininity and being vulnerable to a certain point that a man cannot resist and in the next few days you will see why. This is going to be a 2 or 3 part  project about being feminine and how much power a women has just by being the women that she is. You’ll want to stay tuned for this.
No women wants to come across as being a “nag” or a “bitch.” I don’t know about you but I hear men talking about thier wives, girlfriends and ex’s this way. We don’t want to be talked about this way by our own men now do we? So we often times don’t say anything to a boyfriend or husband when something is bothering us in an effort to be kind.

But by doing this we unknowingly are building resentment deep within us. Resentment occurs when a person gives more then they recieve over a period of time. It becomes overwhelming. Don’t get me wrong, giving is a beautiful thing but to much of a good thing causes one to be taken for granted. Because as the days and weeks go by and you continually give, give and give without rarely getting the same in return it will eventually result in a huge knock down drag out fight because you are so overwhelmed and this leaves you and the one you love hurt and confused.

So by trying really hard not to be labeled as a nag or witch the problems only get worse. It is perfectly okay to tell your man how you feel in the moment you feel overwhelmed. You can set limmits without becoming a witch. You may be wondering what do you do when you need to address something to your man. Basically it is the simple act of talking but in a way that he will listen. Talking is easy and we all love to talk but when it comes to talking about problems in the relationship skill that all women can learn that will cause your man to listen and open up and share his feelings with you.

If a women just talks and talks and talks, he may listen at first but then he becomes overwhelmed and he tunes you out. To many words are overwhelming to a man when forced to listen for a long period of time. It is just how it is. Words alone won’t get your point across and the problem never gets solved. What you need is a more powerful way that cuts deep into a mans heart. I am not talking about threatening him or making ultimatums. I am suggesting that you use the very gift that you already have within you and that is your feelings and femininity.

When you speak with words that come from your heart and sprinkled with your feelings it will touch deep inside your mans heart. Genuinely express your feelings. Putting your feelings first above your fear of his disapproval. Don’t withhold your feelings because you are afraid of being a nag. It is the way that you talk to your man about how something makes you feel that makes all the difference in the world. You can be elegant and classy about it and render him powerless to resist you.

Show yourself some compassion. There will be times when you must put someone elses needs above your own, but if you do this over a long period of time there will be nothing left over to give yourself what you need. This is not being selfish. A lot of women treat others better then they treat themselves and though you may have been cultured that this is a virtue it will eventually leave you empty with nothing left to offer.

I have seen many women who just look drained. I am sure you have too. They literally shut down and become depressed. But being a woman who is heart centered you will actually have more to offer others. So if you are having problems in your relationship and you feel overwhelmed and taken for granted it is probably because you are giving to much to others what you yourself are needing.

If you learn to trust your heart you will never go wrong.

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Because what you don’t know will only keep your lover wanting to be with you, loving you more then they have ever loved anyone else and treating you like you are the most important person in thier life. And what you don’t know will only bring back the one you love and have lost. It will only heal your broken heart and cause you to attract more wonderful experiences and people to you.

But that isn’t what you want…or is it?

If it is then I have to tell you about this ebook that totally changed the outcome of my relationship. You see, I had ordered this ebook when I was at a point where my relationship needed positive changes. I had been dating a great guy for almost two years and moving very slowely in the direction I wanted it to go in. I am sure just about every women or man has experienced something like this in thier relationships.

When there is a need for change or a desire in your heart for something to change some amazing things can take place to bring about those changes. I didn’t understand it at the time it was happening but after really studying the principles in this little ebook I discovered some very important facts about myself and how life works. My relationship had to come to an end before it could really begin. Not all need to go through that but I was stubborn and tried to do things my own way, the only way I knew.

After almost two years of dating this wonderful guy who had great potential in being my husband at some point, our relationship ended. For a couple months he and I hardly even talked to each other. I was busy working on a job in another city and he was in his part of the world going about life as usual, only without me in it. It was heartbreaking because I didn’t want our relationship to come to an end.

But during that time apart I really took everything in the ebook to heart and I practiced it, I took notes and I studied diligently all the principles and strategies in this book. What I liked about it was that it wasn’t filled with nonsense words and paragraphs or scientific mumbo jumbo like some books are. Every page in this book is filled with eye opening and heart touching principles and ideas that are not only true to our nature as human beings but it made total and complete sense to me.

There were no little tricks and techniques to manipulate someone. There wasn’t any games that had to be played. Everything this book talked about not only changed the outcome of my lost relationship and brought him back to me but it also brought about positive change in every other area of my life.

There is a truth that I learned from this book that has stuck with me since I first learned it and I realize how true it is. The truth is that whatever I am seeking is also seeking me. That is how I came about finding this book only I didn’t know it at the time. I was seeking answers to my questions to why things were happening the way they were in my life and in my relationship and that is when I found this book and all the answers to my questions were contained inside it.
 
What you are seeking is also seeking you….

I also learned that nothing happens by coincidence including the fact that you are reading this right now. Everything happens for a reason and that reason is to serve you and your personal evolution.

What you will learn from reading this ebook:

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- Heal your broken heart and bring more harmony into your life and relationship: Break ups are devistating and the worst pain known to man. Easy and fast way to heal your broken heart and ease your pain so you can really start living your life.

-Why you need to stop calling, texting and emailing your ex and give yourself and him/her the gift of time and space: Normally after a break up we are devistated and hurt even if we knew it was coming or we initiated it. Begging is unattractive and annoying and makes them want to run farther away from us.

-You will learn the proven formula and 4 step strategy that will guarentee your success in bringing back the one you love and lost: Yes there is a right way and a wrong way of doing anything. The wrong way will only bring you more frustration, sadness and more of what you don’t want. The right way will only bring you everything you want and desire. More happiness, fulfillment and satisfaction in your relationship and every aspect of your life as a by product of winning your lovers heart and gaining thier respect, love and adoration.

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Of course I begged to differ that complaint and an interesting debate began that started out between just the two of us until  before I knew it we had about 20 men and women joining in. What I found so interesting is that both the men and women had pretty much the same complaint. “What happened to the days when men were more plentiful for women and vise versa.

My conclussion from that night was that both men and women are asking the same question. Where is that special someone out there who was ment for you and you alone? Is it true that there is someone for everyone? And if you actually find that perfect person, is there a quarentee that they will be with you forever?

A lot of men and women both have given up on ever finding let alone keeping the man or women of thier dreams. I find it sad because they are choosing to give up the very thing that we were all born to have. It is our birthright to be loved and to have relationships.  We were created in complete perfection and lack nothing, so why are there so many people still searching for love, happiness and money?

I think it is because they believe that they lack something. And the belief that there just isn’t any good available men or women out there causes us to actually lack relationship, lack love, lack romance and happiness in our lives. There is so much that we can have in our lives and there are choices. Some people may say they are perfectly happy being alone, living alone, and doing things alone…but are they really happy?

I would like to hear some more on this debate…anyone have a comment?